THIS IS NOT MY OWN WRITING BUT I DO FIND THIS ARTICLE VERY DEEP AND EYE-OPENING. I THINK THIS WILL BE A GOOD SHARE IF YOU AGREE WITH ME. TAKE A LESSON FROM IT. IF YOU HAVE ALREADY READ THIS BEFORE, TAKE IT AS REFRESHMENT OF YOUR PREVIOUS UNDERSTANDING. THE MORE YOU RE-READ THE BETTER YOU UNDERSTAND. AS I ALWAYS SAID TO MY STUDENTS AT HASANUDDIN UNIVERSITY “THE MORE YOU READ THE MORE YOU FORGET, THUS, MAKE SURE YOU DON’T FORGET THE MOST IMPORTANT PART OF YOUR READING”..LOL
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LAKEWOOD, MAY 29TH, 2012
One day, Plato asked his teacher, “What is love? How can I find it?”
The teacher answered, “There’s a large wheat field in front. Walk there without turning back, and take just one leaf. If you can find one leaf that you think is extraordinary, it means you have found love.”
So Plato walked…and not long after that, he came back empty-handed.
The teacher asked him, “Why, you don’t bring any leaf?”
Plato said, “I can only bring just one leaf and when I walked through the wheat field I can’t turn my back. Actually I have found one extraordinary leaf, but I don’t know whether there’s any other leaf more extraordinary, so I didn’t take that leaf. When I walked further, I realized that the leaves I found are not as extraordinary compared to the leaf I’ve found earlier in my walk. In the end, I didn’t take any single leaf.”
Then the teacher told him, “So…that is love.”
Another day, Plato asked his teacher again, “What is marriage? How can I find it?”
The teacher answered, “There is a forest in front. Please walk there and don’t look back. You can only cut one tree, and cut the one that you think is the highest. That is when you find marriage.”
Plato walks there, and he came back not long after bringing one tree. The tree, however, is not a very good tree and not a very tall one, either. It’s just an ordinary tree.
The teacher asked him, “Why did you cut that kind of tree?”
Plato answered, “Because from my previous experience, after walking through the wheat field, I came back with nothing. So this time, when I saw this tree which I think is not so bad, I decided to cut it and bring it here. I don’t want to lose another chance to get it.”
And the teacher said, “Well …that is marriage.”
The more you look for love, you will find nothing. Love is in your heart, when you can control your desire and your hope to find something better. When you have endless hope and wish of love, you will only get emptiness…because you won’t get anything and time cannot be turned back. Accept love for what it is.
Marriage is a continuation of love. It’s a process of having chances, and you choose the best option among all the alternatives. If you want to have a perfect match and a perfect marriage, you will only waste your time, because there is no perfect marriage.
ORIGINAL SOURCE OF THIS ARTICLE: http://penglipurlara.wordpress.com/2008/09/13/plato-on-love-and-marriage/